As someone who worked right up until the week of my due date, I can confidently say that nothing prepares you for the whirlwind of those final pregnancy months. Between launching the Chriselle Lim Collection and managing other major projects, I suddenly found myself two weeks from my due date with nothing ready for the baby.

I’d given away all of Chloe’s old baby gear to friends and family, assuming I’d remember what to repurchase when the time came. But mom-brain is real, and I blanked completely. In a last-minute panic, I turned to my Instagram community, asking for their top newborn and postpartum essentials. The response was overwhelming—hundreds of recommendations poured in, from forgotten classics to brilliant new finds.

After testing them all with baby Colette, I’ve narrowed it down to the 20 absolute must-haves that have saved my sanity.

For Mom: Postpartum Recovery & Breastfeeding Essentials

1. Medela Pump

If you plan to breastfeed, a reliable pump is non-negotiable. I stuck with Medela since it worked flawlessly with Chloe, and most insurance plans cover it.

2. Haakaa Silicone Breast Pump

This manual pump is a game-changer—no cords, no bulky machine. Just suction it on, and it does the work for you. Perfect for travel or quick sessions when you’re on the move. I keep both the Haakaa and my electric pump handy for flexibility.

3. Earth Mama Nipple Butter

Breastfeeding can leave your nipples cracked and sore. This all-natural balm is a lifesaver—I apply it multiple times a day like skincare for my nipples. (Bonus: It doubles as an amazing lip balm. Yes, I taste-tested it.)

4. Earth Mama Perineal Spray

Vaginal delivery? This cooling mist (with cucumber, witch hazel, and lavender) is essential for postpartum healing. I won’t overshare, but let’s just say I keep it within arm’s reach after every bathroom trip.

5. Cotton Candy Nursing Bras

Seamless, wireless, and ultra-stretchy, these bras make round-the-clock feedings bearable. The quick-release clasps are a godsend during those bleary 3 AM sessions.

6. Lansinoh Nursing Pads

Leak-proof protection is a must unless you want surprise milk stains on your favorite shirt.

7. Tucks Medicated Pads

Soaked in witch hazel, these cooling pads help with swelling and soreness post-delivery. The hospital provides some, but you’ll burn through them fast—stock up.

8. The Perfect Robe

You’ll live in this for weeks. I practically hibernated in my Eberjey Gisele robe—soft, lightweight, and chic enough to make me feel human.

For Baby: The Newborn Necessities

9. Newton Bassinet

Breathable, washable, and safe—this bassinet gives me peace of mind during those early sleepless nights.

10. Love to Dream Swaddle Up

Not all babies love being swaddled, but Colette lives in these. The arms-up design lets her self-soothe while staying snug.

11. Fridababy NailFrida

Tiny baby nails are shockingly sharp. This clipper lets you trim safely without the fear of nicking their skin.

12. BabyBjörn Bouncer

Hands-free moments are gold. This bouncer keeps Colette content while I grab a coffee or (attempt to) fold laundry.

13. Owlet Smart Sock

A wearable monitor that tracks heart rate and oxygen levels? Worth every penny for the reassurance it brings.

14. FridaBaby Windi

Gas pains = baby meltdowns. These little tubes help relieve trapped gas (sounds odd, but trust me).

15. Mustela No-Rinse Cleansing Water

For quick diaper-area clean-ups without a full bath. Gentle, effective, and a lifesaver during late-night changes.

16. Boppy Nursing Pillow

Takes the strain off your arms during feedings. Also doubles as a cozy spot for baby to lounge.

17. Kyte Baby Sleep Bags

Soft, breathable, and perfect for maintaining a safe sleep temperature.

18. Dapple Baby Bottle Cleaner

Regular dish soap can leave residue—this plant-based cleaner is specially formulated for baby bottles and pump parts.

19. Fridababy DermaFrida

Cradle cap is common, and this gentle brush makes it easy to treat without irritation.

20. A Good Diaper Bag

I splurged on the Dagne Dover Dakota—organized, stylish, and big enough to hold everything and my laptop.

Final Thoughts

If I could go back, I’d tell my pre-baby self to prepare earlier—but at least now I know exactly what works. Whether you’re a first-time mom or a seasoned pro (who somehow forgot everything, like me), this list cuts through the noise and delivers the real essentials.

What’s on your can’t-live-without list? Share your favorites below!

(And to the mom reading this while 38 weeks pregnant with nothing ready—you’ve got this.)